Shut up and kiss me

I'm a sucker for good kissers. (yeah i'd probably be more willing to suck you if you kiss well).

Don't know about you guys, but to me, the best part of sex is foreplay. The light touches, the licking, And as testosterone build up, the hugs and kisses get more intense. Moans of satisfaction get louder. A seductive glide along your back becomes a strong, sexy pull towards him. Fingers brushing through his hair while your tongue explores his mouth; and you can feel his tongue all ready to receive the welcomed guest. Frenching is the best. I can do it all day, and night.

And obviously, there are many who disappoint. One just sucked both my lips in all the time and it was just disgustingly wet throughout. Felt like a koi fish was trying to rip my lips off. Others just either sucked too hard or kept forcing their tongue in the entire time. 

Foreplay should last a good 15 minutes at least, or more. Personally, the most memorable ones are those with good foreplay, especially a good French. (I've always wanted to French a French, are they better at it?)

Oh and yes, please ensure a good breath before kissing. I'd always take mints before we meet up and there was once i actually blew someone with a mint in my mouth. Thank god it didn't burn.

So yep, move those tongue and lips guys. Kiss more. French more!

virgin gay club experience

had a school trip to Shanghai and i've been longing to check out its gay scene.

so one fine night, i finally mustered up the courage and set off, after dinner with my friends.

had to come up with an excuse to ditch them one stop earlier but thankfully i managed to.

i had no idea where the club was and i navigated my way through google maps and i didn't get lost surprisingly. got off and west yan an lu and walked quite a distance to angel club.

www.angelshanghai.com/

paid $50 RMB for the entrance, one drink inclusive and entered.

it had a central dancefloor and the club was filled with people.

i guess i entered too early cos there wasn't much people on the dancefloor so i decided to get a drink.

entered the dancefloor but wasn't high enough to dance.

just bobbed around and decided this was too boring.

went out and bought my drink coupons. 4 drinks for $100 RMB.

the drinks are so much cheaper than sg's!

the only think was that the menu was in chinese and the only thing i could make out was my dear mr. Jack Daniels. ordered one of those and randomly pointed for the rest of the drinks.

so till today, i still dk what i drank that night.

slutted out on the dance floor after a couple of drinks until it died down and i'd go to the bar to get more.

so yep the cycle that night was drink, get high, dance, sober up a little, pee and drink again.

somehow i managed to dance for three hours until people started leaving.

so there were only a few of us left dancing and this guy approached.

he was tall, and cute.

we danced, we touched, and for a brief moment in time, kissed.

i guess it was the alcohol doing its job. :)

sadly, his friend came and pulled him away right after.

i don't know if gays are that possessive but i heard my friend got beaten up because he was dancing with an attached girl in one of the china clubs.

thank goodness he wasn't, or at least i think because his friend wasn't entirely friendly either.

it was then that i decided i had enough fun and exited.

was kinda groggy, but could still think clearly while i waited for a cab.

then this mongolian guy who kept dancing beside me said hi and i smiled back.

had probably one of the weirdest small talk ever (i hate small talk) and he said he was looking for someone to "chao" (fuck).

i was like ok, and smiled, not ready to put out that night LOL.

still, he was really friendly and even offered me food.

maybe because he was eating this ba kwa thingy and i kept staring...

and i even asked without shame for his water.

*note to self: bring your own supplies to a club in future*

oh and guess what, just as i was about to leave, i saw that guy i danced with peeing by the road side and he couldn't even walk straight. LOL.

yep, so that marks the end of my virgin gay clubbing experience.

thinking back, it was really kinda crazy to enter one alone but oh well, who else could i have gone with?

OH. and i got hit on that night to.

HAHAHAHA.

i gave the dumbest response ever.

he took out his phone and wanted me to type in my number,

and i was like hell no i cannot remember and so i took out my phone card (the one that you pluck out the sim from and has the number printed on top) and tried to read.

but i guess the light was too dim or whatever and i got frustrated and just gave him that whole phone card.

idk what on earth i was thinking giving my number like that. :X