impressions

saw tuls's post on superficiality...

while yes, i agree that it's wrong to judge someone solely based on their looks/appearance, it should not be totally neglected.

it isn't possible for someone to change their facial features unless yes, one undergoes plastic surgery,
but there are definitely other ways to improve the impression that you give off.

i guess guys are really at a disadvantage as girls can just put on their make up and fake lashes and become beautiful.

here's proof:

but that doesn't mean that guys cant do anything about the vibe they emit.

there's the hair to style, stubble to shave etc etc.
ok it actually depends on what impression you wanna give out.
like if you dun wanna look nerdy anymore, lose the thick glasses.

idk lah i'm no expert. but i think u can just ask any gay friends of yours for advice.



i guess what i'm trying to say is, there's really no truly ugly person.
i really can't think of anyone i find beyond hope in terms of looks.
just perhaps a little work here and there.

and how would you know where to work on?
constructive criticism.
it isn't pleasing to the ears...but at least you know where you can improve?

even if it's destructive comments...
you can either
1) ignore and remain ugly
or
2) go get a makeover, look totally hot, parade in front of those bitches and steal their bf :)
never mind how long it takes. as the saying goes, jun zi bao chou shi nian bu wan (it's never to late to get revenge)

but in order to do that, effort has to be put in.
i really don't understand why some people refuse to invest in improving appearance.
you don't have to spend an astronomical amount, just make an effort.
first impressions are really important don't you think?
so it definitely doesn't make sense for you to meet someone with your hair unkempt, dressed sloppily and all.
why put urself at such a disadvantage?
if your too lazy then yeah there's nothing anyone can do. (like how i'm lazy to workout and will remain fat)

and do not ever let those nasty comments bring you down.
don't fucking cry about it.
cos there's definitely someway to improve...be confident.
but if all you do is to emo abt it and expect to be pitied,
go fuck urself cos you'll never find a willing soul.